It’s tough having friends and family. And we always want people to be close to and loyal. And many of us tend to blind faith as a means to not admit someone they are close to Is taking advantage of them.
Being blind just causes you to miss all the signs and then it is too late to do anything about it. Luckily there are ways to figure out if people are just using you or not.
1. Commitments and Honor
This one is the oldest trick in the book. If people want something from you, of course they will show up to an appointment with you. But if there is nothing in it for them other than your company, they tend to make excuses and stand you up no matter what. This is a big sign of someone’s true intentions.